Enjoy the Silence

It was intriguing to see that the Pope commented on silence for his message for World Communications Day (which was celebrated on May 20–Ascension Sunday for most of us). 
 St. Peter Martyr, OP, suggests silence
 

\”Silence is an integral element of communication; in its absence, words rich in content cannot exist. In silence, we are better able to listen to and understand ourselves; ideas come to birth and acquire depth; we understand with greater clarity what it is we want to say and what we expect from others; and we choose how to express ourselves.\” –Pope Benedict XVI
We understand this as Dominican nuns. Although we don\’t keep perpetual silence, or take a \”vow of silence\”, we do try to keep a prayerful silence throughout the day and especially in certain areas of the house where noise carries easily and on the monastery grounds where it would be more respectful to be silent (the cemetery, for example). But external silence can often be kept more easily than internal silence! Sometimes, even when we are not speaking, our minds are running a mile a minute with distracting thoughts! The Constitutions of the Nuns of the Order of Preachers tell us, \”The nuns should make of their house, and especially of their hearts, a place of silence.\” (LCM 46:II) We strive every day to do this. Our silence helps us to communicate more effectively with our sisters, with the people we meet in the parlor, with all those we encounter in whatever way God brings them into our lives. And ultimately it helps our prayer as well, which is, after all, the greatest form of communication there is!

May Crowning 2012

Yesterday evening we had our May crowning–it seemed an especially appropriate occasion, being Mother\’s Day!

Processing (a good Dominican tradition!).
Sr. Bernadette Marie carried the crown of flowers…
…and Sr. Irma had the honor of crowning Our Lady!
Every evening during the month of May, we honor Our Lady by making a procession to her statue while singing the Litany of Loreto. This is part of our May novena to Mary, in which we remember in prayer all the petitions and requests that have been made by our friends, relatives and benefactors. Please know that we are remembering you who read this blog as well in our May devotions! May Our Lady intercede with the Lord for all your intentions, and grant those pleasing to His will!

Fifty Years…and counting

Not long ago we had the Mass for Sister Miriam\’s golden jubilee…fifty years of professed Dominican cloistered religious life. Yesterday we had the community celebration for her jubilee–a day of games, festivities, food and laughter. How can anyone spend fifty years \”behind the walls\” of a cloister, seeing the same people day after day, praying with them, eating with them, having fun (we hope!) with them? We think the answer is love. Not just love for your sisters, not just love for the Order, but most of all love for Jesus Christ, who has called us together as a community. We celebrate him every day, at Mass, through our adoration of Jesus truly present in the Blessed Sacrament, through our times of communal and private prayer, and through our expressions of charity toward our sisters and those we meet from the world outside our cloister. Love is more than a warm feeling in your heart–love is expressed concretely in action and has to go on being expressed every day, especially at times when it hurts to love. Jesus is our example in this too, as in all things. But love does not mean simply suffering. In the Gospel of John we hear Jesus tell us, \”As the Father loves me, so I also love you. Remain in my love…I have told you this so that my joy might be in you and your joy might be complete.\” (John 15:9, 11) Joy is a fruit of the Holy Spirit and a characteristic of love. If we have love for Jesus and love for each other, truly we will be full of joy, whatever happens! 
And on a lighter note, here are some pictures from yesterday\’s joyful celebration!
Sr. Maria Guadalupe and Sr. Miriam exchange a big jubilee hug!
Sr. Miriam, Sr. Mary Lucy, and Sr. Mary John are enjoying the program!
Sr. Miriam happily displays her beautiful community gift: a golden rosary!

Retreat Sunday

Tomorrow we will be having our monthly retreat day. The idea of a retreat day for cloistered nuns may come as a surprise–aren\’t cloistered nuns on retreat all the time? Well, yes and no. Yes, in the sense that we live all the time in the silence and awareness of God that people who live in the world try to experience when they are on retreat. No, in the sense that in addition to our silence and times for personal and community prayer, we have a lot of work to do in order to keep the monastery running! So it helps to take a day once a month to step back from the busyness that even cloistered nuns can fall prey to and simply be with God. 
In addition to our community retreat day, each sister is given the opportunity to take a private retreat day once a month (we call it a Moses day, referring to Moses\’ many times of withdrawal from the Israelite community in order to pray). Each sister also has a three day retreat around the anniversary of her profession of vows, and sisters who make it to their silver or golden jubilees get a whole 30 days of retreat! (They don\’t have to take it all at once…but they can!) 
All these retreat days strengthen us as a community. They bring us closer together, because through our silence and solitude we are drawn closer to God. We remember how Jesus called his disciples to come away and rest for a while after their first attempts at spreading the good news. However, we also remember how he sent them back out to preach again after their time of retreat! In the same way, we return to our daily work and recreation on Monday, refreshed and ready to be a joyful community once again. A retreat can help anyone, in any state of life. Consider taking a day and turning off your phone, TV, computer, etc., and try just to listen to God. He speaks in the silence!

Sister Miriam\’s Golden Jubilee

Today Sister Miriam of the Precious Blood, OP had her Mass celebrating 50 years of consecrated life as a cloistered Dominican nun!

Pinning on the jubilee corsage…
 Sr. Mary John, our prioress, and Sr. Miriam 
Of course we had the votive Mass of the Precious Blood, and Bishop Alvaro Corrada del Rio, SJ (our bishop-administrator) and Fr. Paul Philibert, OP (our chaplain) concelebrated.
Sister Miriam renews her vows as Fr. Philibert and Bishop Corrada look on
Presenting the gifts to Fr. Philibert and Bishop Corrada
Several members of Sister Miriam\’s family, including her sister, were able to be present, which made the day especially meaningful for her.
We will be bringing you more of Sister Miriam\’s Golden Jubilee celebration soon, as it hasn\’t stopped yet! Today was the Mass–a public celebration–but in May we will have a community celebration of Sister\’s life and vocation. May God grant you many more years as a cloistered Dominican nun, Sister!

Hail!

Yesterday we were surprised by a sudden hailstorm. It was not as bad as some we have been hearing about, thank God. It melted quickly, but while it was falling it was extremely noisy and frightening!
We are still very dry here so we are grateful for moisture in any form!
Through the providence of God, we were spared serious damage. Only our plants seem to have been affected.  Our prayers are with all those who suffered from the hailstorm and with all those who experience extreme weather in any form.

Blessed Sybillina, OP

We think Blessed Sybillina is among the women at the bottom of this famous rendition of Dominican saints and blesseds by Fra Angelico!

Blessed Sybillina (1287-1367) was orphaned at a young age and went out to work as a servant, although she had to give this up when she became blind.  She became a Dominican tertiary. Her great devotion to St. Dominic encouraged her to pray to him for a miraculous cure for her blindness. St. Dominic came and told her, \”Here, you must suffer darkness so that you may one day behold eternal light.\” After this experience, she decided to become a recluse in a small cell attached to the Dominican church in Pavia, Italy. It is somewhat unusual for a Dominican to become a recluse–Dominicans are famously community minded, following the example of their founder, St. Dominic–but after all, the Order of St. Dominic is a \”broad and joyous garden\”, as St. Catherine of Siena writes, and there is a place for everyone! She had a small window in her cell that was her only contact with the outside world–but through this tiny opening she encountered people of all walks and classes of life, begging for her assistance. She prayed for them all and provided them with wise counsel. She had a great devotion to the Blessed Sacrament, and followed all the Masses and Offices in the Church for the 67 years she lived as a recluse.
Blessed Sybillina was beatified by Pope Pius IX in 1854. We remember her today especially because we have a sister in our community named for her! Happy feast day, Sr. Mary Sybillina!